Posted on Feb 10, 2010 18:18
WOW
1st people complain because the tourney was cancelled and they didn't think Jr. would get his chance to get dad a middle school state championship.
Then people complain because there was not a second site to hold the tourney. (I wonder if any of these people know how hard it is to get a high school to give up it's basketball gym for a wrestling tournament, especially if it is just being held just in case the 1st site cannot hold the tourney.) Never going to happen.
Now that the new date has been decided on. And I will point out it is a date that allows every kid the opportunity to wrestle. If Jr has to wait a few more weeks I think he can do it. If he is killing himself to make weight then he probably didn't need to be at that wt. anyway. I know GOO Jr. did not lose weight. I would not allow it, Middle school kids need to learn to wrestle not learn how to lose weight. GOO Jr. had to learn that this year as a freshman.
Now people are complaining about not knowing where it is yet. Have Patience, it will be revealed soon enough.
BTW as a person who has been in wrestling in some fashion for the last 30 years I will say this. It is NOT the middle school association that is problematic. From what I saw at middle school events is was the parents and fans who are the problem. We don't see the same attitude or lake of respect in the varsity events. Nor do we have the complaining either.
Once again
This is the opinion of GOO
Nothing more and nothing less
GOO out.
The great thing about this country we live in is we are free to express our gripes, complaints, cries, whines and opinions. I for one do not need my son to win me a championship. I have had my successes and am content with them. As for the tourney being canceled I felt it was a hasty decision and it revealed the lack of planning and preparation involved on the part of the kyswa.
My jr isnt wrestling because dad was a goo and I am living my life vicariously through him. He is wrestling because he said dad I want to try wrestling and I said ok. He doesnt cut weight he wrestles at his normal everyday walking around weight because he is good enough to do so. And as my jr pointed out the other day when we found out the tourney had been rescheduled, thats good but its not a big deal. If he were in Ohio, Michigan or Minnesota it would mean more because its just kentucky wrestling. To me that is problematic for the future of wrestling in this state. Again, i am not a goo but I am from ky and would like to see our state and our people recognized for as many things as possible. Poor planning and communication on the part of the middle school association is problematic. It is these early years when the foundation for a sport is built, if it is weak, then the building will crumble.
Not knowing where the event will be held is more a complaint about lack of communication and planning. People also need to know so they can make work, travel, child care and other arrangements. I am a flexible person used to dealing with such abrupt and ever changing situations, but other may not. I want to see wrestling excel in ky and we are laying a weak foundation for it at the middle school level with situations such as this. The second site doesnt have to be a basketball gym, it could be any other venue capable of handling the event and the participants involved. Again, preparation and planning would have eliminated this problem.
I do agree that parents and fans are a problem, but i have seen it just as much at the high school level as at the middle school level. Complaining from the middle school level is again due to a lack of communication, preparation and planning. Most of the parent problems are goos trying to live their lives vicariously through their kids, its very easy to see at the meets.
My opinion and hope things change to make the kids' futures better.